A happy or a chaste woman?

A happy or a chaste woman? You don't have to choose, and now I'll tell you why. Recently, in a conversation with a truly chaste woman, I realized the depth of this concept. It was quite simple, just as it is called: Chastity - All Wisdom.A woman must be able to be wise in love. This does not mean that she should not be with a man, quite the opposite. A woman was created to be with a man, only then is she a complete woman. This does not mean that she should be with any man. It used to be easy, there were almost no unmarried women.

  Traditions were like that. Once she reached a certain age, those experienced in these matters found her a suitable husband. With emancipation, women have now won the right to decide for themselves who to marry. This fact should make all free women in the world happy. Is that so?

Why are there so many books on the subject? Why are marriage counselors well paid? Why are there so many divorce lawyers? And there is no instrument with which to measure loneliness. The modern woman is unhappy in love despite her freedom. Why does it happen like this? This is due to a combination of emotional and physical factors in the woman herself, the society around her, and the reverse effect of emancipation on men. The woman feels like a hunted game in a jungle. Confused, lied to, divided by her inner longings and those imposed on her from the outside, she cannot make an accurate decision, cannot assess and choose the best partner for herself. And finally, after a series of disappointments, a summary is formed in her mind: Men...

 A chaste woman, or for short, a wise woman, must know that she can handle herself in any situation. She was created fragile, but also strong. Vulnerable, but also with feminine skills that can help her find satisfaction in love.

Here are some guidelines for chastity:

First, a woman must realize what she really wants in love. This is not an easy task, often desires are very contradictory and there is no such thing as Mr. Ideal. And this shatters the belief that a good man can be found.
How does the analysis work? It's very simple: All the things you want are written down on a piece of paper.
The following is a breakdown of these things according to several criteria:

-What can and cannot be compromised with
-What is a dream, a fantasy and what is a real need
-What is realistic in accordance with the individual characteristics of the woman and what is not.

When it comes to compromises, it should be borne in mind that at different stages of communication in a serious relationship, the requirements change, some weaken, others strengthen. Of course, this is difficult to predict, but here come the help of films and books, as well as the true stories of acquaintances. Here they are useful in that you can see from the side for a short time, real problems in relationships and, putting yourself in their place, assess what would be important at such a moment. In general, problems in male-female relationships are universal. That is why there are so many jokes on these issues. So, a wise woman will learn from other people's mistakes and will accept them as her own experience. She will be prepared and will be able to overcome them with minimal problems.

 It's difficult for dreams and needs. Dreams are quite capricious things and always flicker before real needs. But again, hypothetical situations must be played out in the mind and each dream must be "tested". For example, are his "blue eyes" so important? Will they make a woman tremble with love.

Wouldn't it be more exciting if, regardless of the color of his eyes, HE looked at her with love? Are the muscles of a bodybuilder more important or being able to cope with life's situations? etc.
If a woman wants not a fleeting experience, but a fairy tale without end for years, she must build on solid foundations, not air towers.

Last but not least, she must look in the mirror and assess whether she is MISS IDEAL, and whether she is the dream of MR. IDEAL.

And if she sees things that disappoint her, she should not despair. Simply, again, using the method of self-analysis, she must assess what she can improve in herself and what is a given. She must know that beautiful models in magazines and films undergo a lot of makeup, specialists and photoshop to look unrealistically perfect.
In addition, men are not looking for porcelain dolls, but living beings. It is simply necessary to have a sober assessment of how to overcome the shortcomings or turn them into advantages. Every woman has her own charm and the man who will enter her life will certainly be fascinated by her overall personality.

We will talk about each of the points in more detail, because they are very important for most people.

 Let's assume that the wise woman has already analyzed herself and knows what she wants. She should now actually look for a partner or, if there are many suitors, choose the best one based on her specific needs. She should also consider whether she can wait for a more suitable candidate or whether it is time to stop.

Once she gives herself to her chosen one, the woman should be convinced that this is forever. For most women, this is not a problem. The woman settles down with him and does not think about anyone else.

However… It does not end there. In order to keep him and prevent him from thinking about anyone else, she must make an effort every day and night to make him happy. And to do this, she must know what makes him happy. To get to know him daily with all the changes in his life and to respond readily to his every need. It often turns out that sex is the biggest “stumbling block”. For some women, sex is too much, for others it is not enough. And sex is very important for a stable relationship. By sex, in addition to the sexual act, we mean the entire erotic-intimate communication between a man and a woman. And in this communication, differences arise because of the male and female attitudes. A woman must be aware of these differences and accept them. To know her sexuality and share it with her man. To look for ways to tell him how she wants to be loved. To learn to like the things he likes - because a woman can. A woman's sexuality is in her head and if she decides and loves, a woman can re-adjust.

These are a small part of the things that can help a woman be happy in love. Every woman must discover for herself who they are. To strive wisely for satisfaction and so in today's strange world in which we live, she can be happy in love.